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Sexting is Happening and is Serious

Imagine your adolescent (under the age of 18) son or daughter being on one of the many social media sites/apps- Snapchat, Twitter, Facebook, Tinder, etc.  They send their girlfriend or boyfriend (also under 18) nude pictures of themselves. They could be arrested on child pornography charges and required to register as a sex offender. Pretty scary stuff. In Arizona, if a juvenile is convicted of child pornography and required to register, the registration terminates at 25, if of course, there are no other charges prior to them reaching that age. It is still scary stuff and has lifelong impact.

How about your adolescent client? How about the child of one of your adult clients or couple?

What do we as clinicians need to be addressing this issue and how do we address it?

If you know me, you know that I deal with things directly and respectfully. At least that is my goal and intention. There is no skirting the issue or being vague and indirect. I also know I have been lax in educating myself about these sites since I don’t utilize them and don’t work with adolescents and children. I do work with parents and grandparents, however. It is my ethical and professional responsibility to be knowledgeable and address sexting and inappropriate use of the internet/social media sites with my clients. It is an important part of parenting now and will continue to be in the future.

Sexting is happening more and more, as we know, with not only adolescents, but tweens and even younger children. The access to social media sites/apps without appropriate adult supervision and discussion can have dire consequences.

Just a couple of months ago, six teens were arrested in Passaic, New Jersey for running social media child pornography sites. They were between 12 and 16 years of age.



This is serious business.

Below are some resources regarding registry law, statistics about sexting, and recent news regarding social media and pornographic images of minors.

Arizona Sex Offender Registry Law

Child Pornography and Selfies: What You Need to Know

Can Sex Offenders Be Barred From Social Media? Justices Lean Toward No
Feb. 2017

Sexting Concerns Raised After More Than 2,000 Children Reported To Police
Sept. 2016

More On Teen Sexting Statistics
March 2015

Sexting/ The Sad Statistics
Feb. 2014

Facebook Reports BBC to Police Over Investigation Into Child Sex Images
March 2017

Revenge Porn Could Land Teens on Sex Offender Registry
Feb. 2017

Child Sexual Abuse: Are Social Networks To Be Blamed?
September 2016

Boy in Middle School Arrested For Demanding Nude Pics on Snapchat: NYPD
May 2016

Social Media Adds To Child Sexual Abuse Cases In Monterey County
April 2016

Snapchat Can Cause Issues When Teens Send Nude Pictures
March 2016

From sexting to sex offender status, lessons for teens on social media dangers
Jan 2016


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Social media has given us this idea that we should all have a posse of friends when in reality, if we have one or two really good friends, we are lucky. -Brene Brown

I don't live my life seeking validation from people on social media.  -Ricki-Lee Coulter

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